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So What are you thinking ??

January 26, 2012

So What are you thinking ??

There are times in our life where we come across situations of ultimate awkwardness and we say to ourselves( we don’t say it, the little voice in our head does!) that “Oh ,they wont like it, why I did it this way at first place..urrghh!” “Now see what he/she might be thinking of you ?” ” They’ll know how stupid I am!” “You moron, look what you did, now hide some place fast !” and so continues many versions of same or similar dialogues(with change of tone of course. yes in my head it does have tone too!! ) for many different people..

So what did you mention there? what went wrong actually ?
Here’s a free tip “Nothing went wrong never !” (oh what a figure of speech 😛 )

Yes, that is the case, what we do is we do “something” once and rest is worrying about the people who might perceive it “x” way , interpret “y” way or understand is “z” way? Why so much thinking?

We just start thinking about what will be the reactions of people around it and the time we waste in this is measurably vast.Think of it.Why do we feel need to go to our heads first to fetch the answer for these questions ?( what would they’ll think ?? )  secondly why do we take these people to our heads to do our evaluation and thirdly why do we again try to enter their heads in our heads to get what would they be then thinking! Now problem is not that we do all that, problem starts when we assume they thought something , which basically what we don’ want them to think (!!)

You know in happens to me too, when I wear some funny jeans and think all the way while walking that people are staring at it. When I say something in the presentation and worry that i said that one point wrong. When I talk to the person I want to impress and think in infinite loop that I should have put it other way round, would have been more effective !!

Guys, this is just a waste of time, I mean when you are walking down the streets and people are passing by, they may have many out of infinite thoughts to think about, are you that special that the person is likely to think about the thing you are embarrassed about ? people might be thinking about their work, friends, families, incidents, past, future plans, or next to do thing on the list,just about anything! You see now, how we waste our time on the things we can’t even be sure of that we deciphered right or not. OR even for a “chosen one” out there who exactly knew while worrying what other party thought, I have an idea, see they already thought of it , it ALREADY happened, now what ?,will you stop that in your head now and move on ?

So, that’s all folks !! now when I wonder whether you got it right or not? you liked it or not?I think,  “You know what, it doesn’t matter, I don’t want thousands of you in my head right now and yes also I am not you to have answer of that. so be it.”

Now you can have that little smile in there, you have another thought to chew on( which one? they must have been worrying/thinking about what I think 😛 ?)

So What makes you “yellow” ? thinking “yellow” or thinking “not blue”?

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