The lovely YOU !!

This pic was from a movie “The lovely bones”, just thought to share it with you for what I had learned from it.

The movie says whatever, you can read it on wiki, but in short , in the last sequence of the movie, when this little girl who is been like stuck in the space of living and dead, She can make things happen or visible to the living people out there but yet on the other side she is not free, “mukti” what Hindus call it, has not dawned on her yet.

Now, this becomes a situation for her where she can stay in the space she is right in and punish her murderer somehow( power of the ghost or something like that). Also some of the girls accompany her in this world, killed by the same person, let her know that it is time to go(go towards liberation i think).

She at one point of time has to choose between staying there and taking revenge OR going away towards peace, “mukti’, knowledge, salvation, whatever in our own words we can call it, the place we reach after giving up this body.And here what she does is “chooses to leave”. Wait what ? no revenge ?

Yes, that’s how life is. Being incomplete , hurtful and sad about things and holding them back, nourishing them in our hearts is of no utter use to us.We should get complete about things , whatever the things might be.Complete , OK , “no problem” about all those things. Unless we are complete about all the things that happened to us while we lived, we won’t get “mukti” or salvation even after being dead !!. What a thought !!(You see, ghosts shown in movies always have some tragedy associated with them before they died 😛 )

While you live here, to do that is in your hands completely, really, stop holding grudges, forgive everyone, even you in some matters if its needed. Forgive and get complete. Cry out load, write on paper, tell a friend, tell LORD, do anything it takes to get free all that stinking stuff inside your mind about anyone or anything “that happened”. Let is go. What we are doing by holding it with us , is just poisoning ourselves with the memories of it, which no longer is true, we are a different person now, and the thing happened to the person is no longer here now.I know and have idea about what kind of things you would be incomplete about, trust me , I have. and I understand you, Just a request, get complete about all of them.Try it, it feels great!! Love. .